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postheadericon Leading Your Life: The Myth of Time Management

Work It, Girl! - Leading Your Life
Time_Mgmt_photo You are clearly and undeniably a goddess. Want proof? You are so desired that you are asked to work on the new project at work, begged to lead the elementary-school bake sale, and formally requested to serve as a board member of your favorite volunteer organization. You have the skills to excel at each of these roles. Heck, there isn't much you can't do.  Well there is one thing – you can't do it all (and keep your sanity).

If you have a family, a career, or both, I bet you frequently look at your watch wishing for one more hour. Some may say you need more effective "time management" skills. I however find "time management" to be a funny concept. The word "manage" suggests that you lead, direct, or have some control over something else. So tell me, when was the last time you directed your watch, "Stop ticking for the next 60 minutes. I need one more hour to finish things up?" 

We can't technically manage time. But we can manage the commitments we fit into the time we have. Therefore a more accurate and empowering term is "commitment management," as it focuses on something you actually can control. The skills needed to manage your commitments are different than those of traditional "time management."

 

postheadericon Small Steps to Clutter Clearing Success

Life Is Good - Debbie Bowie's Feng Shui

Small Clutter Clearing Steps Lead to Big Results

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You’ve probably heard that the way to get a big project done is to break it down into smaller steps. However, I’ll bet there have been times when you’ve cursed the advice-givers because even breaking projects down into smaller steps can be a daunting task in itself, especially if you are not a linear thinker. For example, you may freeze up in that task because there could be a right and wrong way to break things down into smaller steps.

Two different women in the last week shared their success stories with me about how they tackled clutter clearing by taking small steps in a way that worked for them, without the usual overwhelm. The first told me that she chose one small task to clean up her cluttered kitchen and did it. For example, she’d tell herself, “I can put all the food away,” and do it. Once that was done she’d say, “I can gather together the papers scattered everywhere,” and do that. Using that method she’d work her way around the room until order was restored.

 

postheadericon Have Realistic Organizing Expectations

Life Is Good - Debbie Bowie's Feng Shui

Trying to Be Like "Mom" May Be a Setup for Failure

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In my twelve years of professional organizing I’ve run into many women who are still trying to keep house just like “Mom” did. So, what’s wrong with that? After all, Mom was the role model. There would be nothing wrong with that if Mom’s life was comparable to the lives of women today.

When I look at my mother’s reality compared to mine, there are major differences:

  1. For most of the years that we three children were at home, she did not work outside the home. Therefore, she had much more time to manage all the tasks of running a home.
  2. The pace of life was much slower than it is today, therefore it was easier to keep up with all the chores of running a home. Easier, not easy. It’s never easy to keep up with the demands of raising children and running a home.
 

postheadericon Sports Backers launch 8k Training Team

Sporting Women - Team Sports

Some people break into a cold sweat just thinking about running or walking five miles.  And with good reason!  If you’re at the beginning of an exercise regimen, five miles is nothing to sneeze at and will be a major accomplishment when you reach that milestone.  But Dan Blankenship, the head coach of the newly formed HCA Virginia 8k training team, wants you to think about it differently.  

“Our training team starts you walking or jogging one mile in a group setting that is both encouraging and motivating.  You gradually increase the mileage each week with built-in recovery weeks.  You don’t think about the end goal, you think about smaller weekly goals,” said Blankenship, who is also the head coach of the popular YMCA 10k training team that prepares runners for the Ukrop’s Monument Avenue 10k.

The inaugural 8k training team begins September 17th in five convenient locations around the city.  It focuses on walkers and joggers who are looking for a fun, social way to a healthier lifestyle. “We are becoming a healthier society and Richmond is becoming more fit thanks to Sports Backers training teams,” states Blankenship.  The 8k training team is geared for those who rarely exercise or are ready to get off the couch and has been created to tailor to anybody’s fitness level.  

Mandy Burnette, head coach of the downtown location at Retreat Hospital should know.  The program is “very adaptable to help meet ones specific goals,” Burnette describes. “You’ll get a structured training schedule as well, which is great for people new to the commitment of regular exercise.” Both coaches agree the training program can work for anyone trying to get their life on a healthier path, but it takes that initial push to get you going.

“In August 2006 I was out of shape and could barely walk a mile,” Burnette recounts. “Two friends encouraged me to sign up for the 8k. I trained week after week and on 11/11 I ran 5 miles! Since then, I’ve run 26.2 twice.”

Blankenship recounted a similar story.  He just laced up a new pair of shoes and decided to go out for a two mile run. “I made it out of the driveway and down to the second mailbox on my street before I had to stop, gasping for air.” He kept at it, pushed himself further and further, 14 years later “I’ve completed 18 marathons, 10 half marathons, and dozens of 5ks, 8ks, and 10ks.”  Since then, he’s been using his running experience and inspiring backstory to help coach many in Richmond.

Both coaches emphasize the social benefits of group endurance training.  “It’s hard to stay motivated when training by yourself,” Blankenship explains. “Through the team environment you’ll receive plenty of motivation to keep you on track.” They explain how the training team is meant to provide a fun, warm social environment to encourage everyone who joins. 

They explain how mutual accountability and encouragement from teammates and coaches help members achieve unprecedented success and unexpected benefits. “The social aspects of this program are probably some of my favorite benefits,” muses Burnette. “Before participating in a Sports Backers training program, I was a solo runner. Now, I love running with others and have met some of my closest friends through training.”

You can register for now for the HCA Virginia 8k training team at www.richmondmarathon.org. Registration will remain open until September 23rd.  The $55 fee includes a training guide, weekly group runs with experienced coaches, entry into the HCA Virginia 8k, a t-shirt as well clinics on proper shoes and what to expect on race day.

“Crossing the finish line of your first race or 10th, the feeling is amazing. A true sense of accomplishment,” Burnette says with hopes of helping many more people understand that feeling.

 

postheadericon First Female Regional Forester in VA

Work It, Girl! - Business News

VDOF Selects New Regional Forester

Toni Noreika Responsible for 30 Counties in Eastern Virginia

A 26-year-veteran of the Virginia Department of Forestry has been chosen to lead agency’s Eastern Region – a 30-county area that extends from the Eastern Shore to Brunswick County up to King George County.

Toni Noreika, most recently an assistant regional forester in the agency’s Waverly office, was selected from a competitive pool of external and internal applicants and becomes the first woman to be a regional forester in the agency’s 97-year history.  A resident of Suffolk, Noreika has held a number of increasingly responsible positions since joining VDOF in 1985, and she’s looking forward to the new job’s opportunities and challenges.

 
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